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Go pick up a man. I dare you.

March 12, 2009

It’s Spring. I’m feeling frisky … and I know you are too!

So… I dare you to ask a guy out.

If you’re like me and the idea of going out on a date makes your stomach squirm, then you get a reprieve. It’s only been one week since the “official breakup”, so I get to take a time out. As for the rest of you – how long has it been since your last date? If it’s been a while – then why aren’t you out there?

I know it’s a huge pain in the ass to date … but don’t you miss it? Are there any guys you have little crushes on? Could the feeling be mutual? Find out. Ask him. Put yourself out of your misery and just do it.

If you read my blog regularly you know I’m a huge advocate of women taking the plunge and asking men out, flat out.

Here are a few little tid bits on asking men out.
1. Men love being asked out, it’s flattering.
2. (If they’re actually single) they rarely say “No.”
3. You seem confident and sexy.
4. You have nothing to lose. At the end of the day you know one way or another whether or not he likes you. Peace of mind is priceless.
5. Your gut is rarely wrong. If he’s been flirting with you or just smiling at you in the coffee shop, he’s probably into you. He’s giving you the green light.
6. Men are lazy when it comes to romance. They prefer it if we do the work – and that includes asking them out.
So I’m daring you all to ask someone out, a stranger, a friend or a crush…here’s how:
Find a common interest through conversation and then ask him if he’d like to join you the next time you go (insert activity here). Offer him your number (don’t get his). Then the ball is back in his court.

See? Easy as pie. Do it! It’s Spring! C’mon!

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